We came to Idyllwild by default, not choice. How many people have told me that they came up here for a day trip, and by the end of the day had bid on a house? Or that they stepped out of the car, and felt like they had come home?
It wasn’t like that for us. It broke our hearts to leave Flagstaff, where we had met, married, had our first child. I was offered a job in Perris, though, that we couldn’t afford to turn down. Archaeologists are a dime-a-dozen in Flagstaff. My boss-to-be, Geary Hund, lived here and almost dreamily sang about what a great town it was. It certainly seemed a better option than Perris, anyway.
It took a while, but the little things started to grow on me. I love pulling up to a stop sign and knowing the driver that’s waving me through. I love being able to walk to the grocery store, or the library. I love it that half the staff of the Fairway has been there for twenty years, and the other half never lasts a month. I love the story that someone drove past the Chevron with a low tire, and came home to find a message on their machine from Steve telling them to come get it fixed. I love that Theresa at the library saves things for my kids, because she remembers what they like. I love that even the teenagers still call Kathy and Denise "teacher."
I love that nobody here needs to use a last name. Herb, Becky, Dora, Barnaby, Lori- you know exactly who I’m talking about. I love it that Frank&Conor are always thought of as a single unit, although we all know their wives are exceptional, beautiful women. I love that Sherry knows I have a package before I hand her the yellow slip. I love knowing what a yellow slip is, and that my kids think it is weird that somebody brings mail right to grandma’s front door, down in the city.
And I should probably add that I love reading in the Crier that there was a bear under someone's porch, and immediately know that it was somehow Kevin's doing.
We have the best Halloween here, no doubt. I love that Mary from the post office and Bud from the bike shop have both been Grand Marshalls on the fourth. I love the way we are all a little afraid of Grandma Yung.
I love Gracie at the church thrift shop, and that Miss Bonnie remembers the name of every single child she has ever read to. I love walking into the Help Center, and the kids can tell me who wore every shirt on the kids’ rack. I love it that somebody in exactly my size, with a love of Ann Taylor, just made a big donation there.
I love it that when I tell people where I live, they always ask if I am by Rob and Mallory, or down by Svetlana? I love that when a neighbor is going shopping off the hill, they ask if you need anything. I love it that I can stop any misbehaving kid on the street and remind them to shape up, and they will, because their mom will have heard about it by the time they get home. Even worse, their girlfriend’s mom will have heard, too. I love the smell of the Candy Cupboard. I always tell myself that we are going there for the kids, but I always end up with a piece myself.
I love it that Ron and Cathy know that the blue jar is for Yunnan, the silver one for Keemun, and that the green tea I like is Kenmaicha. I never remember that one, myself. I love that Matt starts a chai when he sees my car pull up to the coffee house, and always does something fancy with the foam. I love rooting for whatever new restaurant is making an attempt with that building on the highway. I love that Dawn has always got something new to talk about when I get my hair cut, and that Rebecca's is a different color every time I see her. I love it that we only need 4 digits for a phone number.
I love pulling up to a party, and there are already six other Subarus at the curb. Mine is the only green one, though. I love it that we built a house for Maria, and that the entire town turned out for Jimmy Campbell. With salads.
I don’t love the transfer station. Not that I am one in my household who has to haul the trash, but that family member doesn’t always take it as often as I might like. Not that I’m complaining, or anything.
I’m still homesick for Flagstaff, and we might end up back there someday. I'm not all that enchanted with the rest of Southern California. But right now, with flames dancing at the bottom of the hill and a potential for evacuation, I know how much I we really have, here. Stay safe, everybody.
***DISCLAIMER: I am not usually this sappy. I have the flu. Don’t hold it against me.****